Friday, December 19, 2008

Christmas Card


Yes, I had big plans for our family Christmas card this year—plans that included our entire family posing beautifully within a festive scene. We would all wear matching outfits, with Ava in the most adorable dress I could find. Visions of our holiday happiness danced in my head.

Then the toddler spoke, sharing her opinions. Her independent opinions. WHICH IS NOT A BAD THING; I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY FOR THE RECORD. Remember? I WANTED her to be an independent woman!

And her opinions? No, she did not want to take a picture for the Christmas card. No, she did not want Mommy or Daddy to be present, even if she did finally concede to this horrible request. No, she would not wear a dress. No, she would not be smiling for the camera. Needless to say, it was looking like I would never create the perfect Christmas card. Although I did manage to convince Ava to pose for several photo shoots, nothing turned out well.

Until a random day at Mimi and Papaw's house. Ava suddenly decided she was ready for her close up. Wearing a purple sweat suit, with not a bow in sight, she proudly posed alone with a big grin. And me? I was more than happy with that, as those of you know who did, in fact, receive the Smith family Christmas card this year. See? I’m not picky! I take what I can get!

Happy Holidays!

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

It's Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas

Waving to Santa as he circles the Christmas tree in his train

As most of you know, Christmas is my hands-down favorite time of the year for a multitude of reasons. In fact, before the last remnants of my Thanksgiving meal have fully digested, I am already making preparations for the holiday season to come. This year I am doubly blessed during this time of year, as I finally have a willing cohort in all my holiday hijinx—you guessed it: Miss Ava Brooklyn Smith. She has embraced Christmas with a gusto I hadn’t actually expected. Not just the typical Santa excitement, but every single aspect of the yuletide. Let me expound upon a few such happy moments between Christmas-crazed mother and daughter.

Making the tree beautiful

Perhaps my favorite tradition to share with Ava was the time-honored ritual of decorating the Christmas tree. (Note: last year, since it was our first Christmas in the new house, Erik lowered himself to allow me to purchase a live tree, which in my opinion is the only tree worth having; however, his allowance came with a price; namely, that every year thereafter we must use an artificial tree.) I, however, have refused to let this transgression dampen my spirits in any way. Moving on….

Ava literally vibrated with anticipation as I unpacked the ornaments and other decorations for our tree. She had personally selected some shatter-proof balls at K-Mart to add to our collection, and she could barely wait for me to attach the hooks. You may not be able to tell in the pictures, but the entire bottom section of the tree is fully ringed with these beautiful blue, red, and silver balls. All courtesy of Ava’s hard work. I focused on the upper levels of the tree, and between the two of us we are quite pleased with the result. Still, I will forever cherish the memory of my little daughter meticulously selecting her ornaments and finding just the right spot for them. Priceless!

Posing with our masterpiece (ignore my pants, please, there is no excuse!)

Next we tackled Christmas cookies. Ava saw a commercial for Betty Crocker sugar cookies on TV that featured Santa, so naturally she simply had to make some herself. Thus, we duly armed ourselves with a package of the very same Betty Crocker sugar cookies, plus icing and a variety of holiday sprinkles. After assuring Erik that making a mess was all part of the process (even if our cookies weren’t entirely homemade), we dove right into the project.

And Ava? She mixed dough. She rolled said dough into balls. She arranged said balls on the cookie sheet. She (with a bit of help here) added icing to the completed cookies. She sprinkled to her little heart’s desire to finish the cookies. She smiled her beautiful smile. What a wonderful way to start our cookie tradition!


Lastly, I want to share a moment that occurred as Ava and I were unpacking the Nativity scene. She is quite familiar with this story, as last year Mimi and Papaw got her a Fischer Price Nativity set that she plays with year round. Her favorite piece? Baby Jesus, of course! Our actual Nativity scene—as you can imagine—is quite breakable, a fact I was trying to impress upon my little adult. She simply couldn’t understand why she wasn’t allowed to play with these pieces like she did with her own. As gently as I could, I pried away Mary, then Joseph, then the wise men, and finally the various animals. As I did so, Ava vehemently clutched the breakable Baby Jesus in her tiny fist. Her mouth set firmly, her eyes daring me to try it—just try it. Finally I broke the silence.

Mommy: Ava, honey, I’m going to need to add the Baby Jesus to our Nativity scene.

Ava: Mommy, you can’t do that to me! PLEASE DON’T TAKE THE BABY JESUS AWAY FROM ME! I need the Baby Jesus! I LOVE the Baby Jesus!

This was said in such a desperate pleading voice that I went against my strong Catholic tendencies and let her play with the Baby Jesus. And you know what? She didn’t so much as chip the little figurine.

Ah—I love miracles at Christmas time!

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Sweet Stuff


Because it's so rare to capture that adorable Ava sweet smile on camera, I simply had to post this picture. Unfortunately, I cannot take credit for it (thank you, Jordan!), but I can nevertheless revel in the fact that she's not glaring, shouting, picking her nose, or sucking on her fingers. How sweet!

Thanksgiving


Although I am late this year sharing my Thanksgiving thoughts, it by no means reflects my lack of appreciation for all that I have been given in my life. In fact, as Erik is quick to point out, we try to be thankful year-round, not just on a single day. As you may notice from this blog, we in the Smith family take joy in the simple pleasures that daily life offers us. However, in honor of Thanksgiving (which was wonderful, by the way, full of incredible people and delicious food!), I would like to list some of what I am most thankful for in my life.
  • Family, above all else, which God has continually blessed me with
  • A husband who brightened my life from the moment I met him
  • A daughter that gave my life meaning, joy, and fun
  • Parents whom I consider best friends
  • In-laws that I love
  • A job that keeps me challenged
  • The bubbly wonder that is Coca-Cola
  • The head-spinning variety of fast-food that I cannot quite cut out of my diet
  • Ok, now I'm just being silly, and besides, there are too many things to list anyway.....You get the idea!

I hope everyone had a Happy Thanksgiving! On to Christmas!